When we constantly belittle our children there comes a time when they begin to believe whatever we have said. This results in low self esteem and psychological disorders or complexes. In turn they may resort to irresponsible behaviour and habits. However, when we constantly praise our children, telling them how important they are to us, how much we love them, how gorgeous and special they are and how proud we are of them, their self esteem is boosted, confidence levels shoot up, they focus on achieving more and they are more likely to be saved from dangerous or irresponsible behaviour and habits.
This is why we MUST go out of our way to make such heart warming statements to them regularly and never forget to do the same to ALL our children. When we have to correct our children we should do so lovingly in the best manner possible.{Mufti Ismail Menk}
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